Presley's story...

Presley's story...
Hello, my name is Presley & I was born February 19th,2008. My mommy was having a difficult pregnancy due to increased amniotic fluid so at 28 weeks she went to see a specialist who told her I had something called duodenal atresia. Due to this intestinal problem it was certain that I would have to have surgery after birth. The specialist also said this condition indicated that there was a possibility that I could have Down syndrome & that mommy should have a test to be sure, which she did. One week later mommy started contracting & bleeding and went to the hospital. That morning mommy's doctor confirmed that I did have Down syndrome. This scared & saddened my parents. Later that evening I was born, washing away much of the sadness. The next day they looked at my heart & said I had a heart conditon, common to Down syndrome babies & that I would require yet another surgery to correct this. Mommy & Daddy got sad again. Since then, the 1st 6 and a half months of my life were spent in the hospital, along with three surgeries, a ton of prayers, alot of tears, plenty of smiles & more blessings than my parents could of ever imagined. You see, at first all anyone could see were the diagnosis & all the fears that they entailed. BUT NOW!?! Now they see me! And well, I don't wanta brag or nothin' but it is kinda hard to think of bad stuff when you look at me!!

Mommy's story...

Mommy's story...
Hello, my name is Kele & I am the proud mother of this little butterfly. Presley told the story pretty accurately. However, I choose to share some of the more personal emotions & thoughts in regards to this journey the Lord has felt to put me on. When we initially received the news of Presley having Down syndrome, I truly felt as if my life, as I had known it, 'perfect' & uncomplicated, was over. I mourned the loss of this 'perfect' life for weeks. This whole idea of having a 'special needs' child threw me into the darkest & saddest place I have ever been. I would wake in the middle of the night only to realize it wasn't a bad dream...it was my reality. I have never cried more tears in my life. To be brutally honest, there were many times that it wasn't even about my sweet Presley & her well being at all, it was just about the fact that this messed up MY idea of MY life!! You see, my life was supposed to look like that Estee Lauder ad, where this beautiful, perfect family all lay on the beach in matching wool sweaters. Have you ever seen that ad? LOL! I mean, it was all pretty wonderful so far. I was lucky enough to be a stay home mom, 2 adorable, healthy children, married to a hottie, great family, good friends, nice home...seriously, all I needed were the wool sweaters. In some of my darkest times I would go online. I wouldn't necessarily search for medical things regarding Ds but more personal things. I stumbled in to the world of 'blogs'. Looking into the lives of families that also had children with 'special needs' & I found myself saying "wait a minute, this family is adorable" & "Wow! what a cool family". Every night, for several hours, I would do this - visit these family blogs, I was truly addicted. It was then that I realized that so many of these families were amazing, beautiful, 'perfect' families and most times, not in spite of their 'special needs' child, but often times because of that child. The stories on their blogs were touching & profound, the siblings were usually wonderful & amazing. Then I realized...maybe this 'perfect' life I have dreamed about doesn't have a damn thing to do with those wool sweaters...I mean, I live in Texas for God's sake!! Maybe it has everything to do with this little girl...this new little butterfly who has fluttered her way into our hearts. She has already taught me so much since the day the clouds parted for her arrival into our lives. I have no doubt the best is yet to come & that is why I created these two blogs, PresleyandT21.blogspot.com to chronicle Presley's journey. And as for our family blog? Well, where as I certainly invite you to join the fun & would feel honored if it inspires someone in need, as I was, it is truly a site created for me. In case there is ever a night in which I am doubting that my life is any thing less than amazing, incredible, full and yes....'perfect', I won't have far to go... Gilesfamilyof5.blogspot.com

WELCOME ALL...

For those new to this site, thank you for visiting!!
Our butterfly, Presley, spent the first 6 and 1/2 months of her life in the hospital. This blog is her blog, recording her journey, during that time.
Much is recorded here about her medically, as well as the personal insights of her mommy.
For complete accuracy, you may want to scroll to the bottom and start at the 1st entry.

Presley and I thank you for visiting and would love, love, love to hear from anyone, at any time, regarding their own journey!

Monday, August 18, 2008

1st update on our butterfly...

First and foremost, Mike and I want to thank those of you who have been so kind as to send a gesture this morning. We have received many, many emails, texts, messages and comments on the blog, letting us know that you are thinking of us. I can not express in words what this means, thank you, truly.

This morning when we arrived at the hospital at 6:30, the doctor informed us that Presley had some issues over night. She had a temp of a 100, then in the attempts to cool her down, her temp dropped as low as 94, followed by a blood pressure and heart rate drop. Labs were drawn, medications were stopped while others were started, all in the attempts to stabilize her.
She was stable upon our arrival, as well as wide awake. The doctor said that the heart surgeon would be made aware of these happenings and may decide to push her surgery back. Mike and I waited at her bedside, in disbelief, to hear the final word.
As I looked at her, tube down her mouth, endlessly tonguing it, trying to get it out and struggling to move, but unable to due to her arms being tied down, I agonized over the idea of having to see her like this even one more day!
Thankfully, the surgery is 'a go'.
Mike and I are in the O.R. waiting room staring at this flat screen that has all of the names (in code) of patients in the O.R. There are one of three symbols by each name. The first one is the symbol of a 'knife', YES, a knife. Which means the patient is being operated on.
The second symbol is of 'little stitches', this indicates the procedure is closing and the third symbol is a 'band aid', meaning the procedure is done.
The anesthesiologist did say beforehand that it would take some time to get all her lines in, hooked up on monitors and on the ventilator, before the procedure would start.
So, Mike and I sit in the O.R. for a good hour, staring at the flat screen, waiting for the knife symbol to be by our daughters name.
Seriously, they need to rethink that symbol.
10:00 was when it appeared. Shortly followed by the surgeons nurse coming into the waiting room to confirm that he is now opening her up and starting surgery.
So far, all is well. Not much else to tell. She will come back out in an hour or so.
Thanks so very much for your thoughts and prayers, we will keep you posted.

16 comments:

Heather said...

No words only prayers.

Aunt Kristy said...

Sweet Presley...no matter what she's going through, what's going in/out of her (tubes & such), she still manages to pull off being a VERY PRETTY little girl!! I guess she just can't hide it, can she?? Thanks for the update. Yes, I agree, they need to think of a new symbol!! Still praying & will be...

Anonymous said...

I am still praying with all my might. Love you all
Melinda

heidi marie said...
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heidi marie said...

kele,

little presley, you and mike, and all of presley's O.R. staff is in our prayers!!! hopefully, i will catch you in the waiting room in a bit. henry is on the same floor as the waiting room. i know that if anyone can help your little one, it is dr. m. i can't wait to hear that miss presley is out of the O.R. and the surgery went well!!! she's a fighter!!!!

Brenda Brown said...

Giles family
There are prayers coming from Missouri too. I am at work and keeping your site open on the computer so I can check for updates. I am praying for you all, the doctors, nurses and of course your little butterfly.

Emily said...

She is so beautiful!!! We are praying!
<>< The Carlton's

Shannon @ Gabi's World said...

I agree with you about the knife symbol. What were they thinking when they came up with that. I'll be checking in on you guys and praying all day!

Patsy DeSalvo said...

Just called grandma to fill her in, she agrees with you, me and Kristy, they need to rethink the "knife"! Glad so far so good, still praying at each little break and while I am working. That picture still show a VERY beautiful Presley - with mommie's curls!

Kimberly said...

Heather said it best. Ditto.

Kim

Marci said...

Sending prayers your way....Love, Marci The Prayer Bears and fellow blogger

Pam said...

Thinking of you and sweet Presley. It breaks my heart that she has had to endure so much. Please know that we are praying and praying and praying for all of you.

Soon she will be home where she belongs.....I just know it.

Lots of loves....

Pam and Rhett

Lisa - Lily's mommy said...

I was given a link to your site today on the T21 board that I frequent. When I read your mommy's story I cried as so many of those same words were in my story! My daughter Lily is 4 now and she had OHS at 6 months after surviving and overcoming Hydrops prenatally - she was my miracle! I just want you to know that Lily and I will be praying for your beautiful Presley and praying this will signify the beginning of a new era and healing for her!

God bless you!

Lisa - mommy to Lily Marlene

Anonymous said...

This is the first time seeing your beautiful daughter. I send Prayers and huge hugs to your family!!!
Jenn and Brook

Anonymous said...

Kelly, I'm so glad everything went good. The power of prayer truely works. Just keep hanging in and remember she's one step closer to home!!
Love, Shannon McNiel

bethmckray said...

Oh Kele, my heart breaks reading this post as I remember all too well when McKayla would fight the intubation, she would just struggle and struggle, the doctors would eventually have to sedate her even more because the tie downs were not working. It is an awful way to see your child, many hugs! I am sorry that I am just now reading this too... Lots of prayers for you guys!

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